Advice
Guidance, tools, and frameworks to help you live a better life.

When bodies and appearances are malleable, what does that mean for the person underneath?

Yes, it hurts to be human right now. That’s actually the assignment.


What to do if your friends are confiding in ChatGPT instead of you.


Please don’t overthink this one.

They grow up together, but are twins destined to share a social network?

After decades of social isolation, people are realizing proximity is a resource.


Insects may feel pain. Do you have a moral duty to protect them from harm?


How to handle secondhand stress, financial strain, and more.


Most people say friendship is important to them, but often act in ways that contradict that sentiment.


Even when you’re physically alone, you might not be getting the restorative solitude you need.


How to think about what’s best for your child — and for all the other children, too.


The problem is not the number of hours. It’s “time confetti.”


Losing a job can feel like losing your identity. Here’s how to find yourself again.


Listless? Exhausted? Feeling useless? You might be burnt out.


Whether you’re really struggling or just need a small favor, there’s no shame in seeking support.


It is possible to shut your brain off without falling into the mindless scrolling trap.


Have we finally unlocked exercise’s biggest secret? Or is this yet another lie perpetrated Big Treadmill?


How society convinced us that childbearing without a huge budget is morally wrong.


Toughing out that awkward silence can help deeper issues come to the surface.


I like camping. My partner doesn’t. How will we make it work?


Hint: The best educational choice you can make for your child might not focus on your child at all.


If you’re about 30 seconds away from completely losing your cool with a family member, read this.


How to turn new people into new friends.


We can get distracted sometimes. Here’s how to make your loved ones feel truly heard.


A lot of people find money stuff overwhelming — but it’s never too late to start educating yourself.


After years on psychiatric drugs, some ask if they owe it to themselves to try coming off the medication.


I feel guilty about how much I hate being pregnant. Experts say I shouldn’t.


A new theory about why human beings evolved the need to feel purpose.


You just have to strike a balance between optimism and realism.


This doesn’t mean you did anything wrong — and there are plenty of ways to dig yourself out.


If you’re afraid to deal with your taxes, hiring an accountant will change your life.


You don’t have to give up on a profession you love and become a plumber.

I’m 37 and pregnant with twins. Is it time?


America’s clutter problem, explained.

How a man who calls himself Kismai built a cult following around lipase and “spa day.”


It’s not just about budgeting, but how you want your money to make you feel in this new phase of life.


How to think about long-term use, dependence, and withdrawal — according to a professional.


There are ways to actively resist the idea that your life would be better if you lost some weight.


Is sugar really that bad for you? Well, what kind of sugar are we talking about?


A psychiatrist explains why Internal Family Systems is having a moment, despite its lack of evidence.