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Guidance, tools, and frameworks to help you live a better life.

How old am I supposed to look?
Life

When bodies and appearances are malleable, what does that mean for the person underneath?

By Allie Volpe
“I’m disgusted to be a human”: What to do when you hate your own species
Future Perfect

Yes, it hurts to be human right now. That’s actually the assignment.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
Help! My friend is replacing me with AI.Help! My friend is replacing me with AI.
Advice

What to do if your friends are confiding in ChatGPT instead of you.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
What’s more likely to be sentient: An ant or ChatGPT?What’s more likely to be sentient: An ant or ChatGPT?
Advice

Please don’t overthink this one.

By Sigal Samuel
What twins can teach us about friendship
The Highlight

They grow up together, but are twins destined to share a social network?

By Allie Volpe
Why “neighborism” is having a moment
The Highlight

After decades of social isolation, people are realizing proximity is a resource.

By Sara Radin
The Highlight
Should you feel guilty for killing the bugs in your house?Should you feel guilty for killing the bugs in your house?
The Highlight

Insects may feel pain. Do you have a moral duty to protect them from harm?

By Sigal Samuel
Explain It to Me
Caregiving has a burnout problemCaregiving has a burnout problem
Podcast
Explain It to Me

How to handle secondhand stress, financial strain, and more.

By Jonquilyn Hill
Advice
You might not be as good of a friend as you think you areYou might not be as good of a friend as you think you are
Advice

Most people say friendship is important to them, but often act in ways that contradict that sentiment.

By Allie Volpe
The Highlight
Yes, you need “me time.” Here’s how to do it right.Yes, you need “me time.” Here’s how to do it right.
The Highlight

Even when you’re physically alone, you might not be getting the restorative solitude you need.

By Allie Volpe
The Highlight
Is it wrong to send your kid to private school?Is it wrong to send your kid to private school?
The Highlight

How to think about what’s best for your child — and for all the other children, too.

By Sigal Samuel
Future Perfect
Why it feels like there’s never enough time for your relationshipsWhy it feels like there’s never enough time for your relationships
Future Perfect

The problem is not the number of hours. It’s “time confetti.”

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
How to make unemployment suck a little lessHow to make unemployment suck a little less
Advice

Losing a job can feel like losing your identity. Here’s how to find yourself again.

By Julia Sullivan
Explain It to Me
What to do about burnout at workWhat to do about burnout at work
Podcast
Explain It to Me

Listless? Exhausted? Feeling useless? You might be burnt out.

By Jonquilyn Hill
Advice
How to ask for help when you’re really going through itHow to ask for help when you’re really going through it
Advice

Whether you’re really struggling or just need a small favor, there’s no shame in seeking support.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Advice
8 ways to zone out and relax that don’t involve being on your phone8 ways to zone out and relax that don’t involve being on your phone
Advice

It is possible to shut your brain off without falling into the mindless scrolling trap.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Advice
What trainers actually think about the 12-3-30 workoutWhat trainers actually think about the 12-3-30 workout
Advice

Have we finally unlocked exercise’s biggest secret? Or is this yet another lie perpetrated Big Treadmill?

By Alex Abad-Santos
Future Perfect
I don’t feel rich enough to have a kid. Should I do it anyway?I don’t feel rich enough to have a kid. Should I do it anyway?
Future Perfect

How society convinced us that childbearing without a huge budget is morally wrong.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
Are the therapy sessions where I have nothing to say really…doing anything?Are the therapy sessions where I have nothing to say really…doing anything?
Advice

Toughing out that awkward silence can help deeper issues come to the surface.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Life
My partner and I don’t share many interests. Should we break up?My partner and I don’t share many interests. Should we break up?
Life

I like camping. My partner doesn’t. How will we make it work?

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
How can you prepare your kids for AI’s disruption to the job market?How can you prepare your kids for AI’s disruption to the job market?
Future Perfect

Hint: The best educational choice you can make for your child might not focus on your child at all.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
What to say to relatives who love to needle you about politicsWhat to say to relatives who love to needle you about politics
Advice

If you’re about 30 seconds away from completely losing your cool with a family member, read this.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Advice
The secret to successful conversations with strangersThe secret to successful conversations with strangers
Advice

How to turn new people into new friends.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
3 things all great listeners do3 things all great listeners do
Advice

We can get distracted sometimes. Here’s how to make your loved ones feel truly heard.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
I’m a semi-successful adult with a decent job. Why do financial conversations still make me feel clueless?I’m a semi-successful adult with a decent job. Why do financial conversations still make me feel clueless?
Advice

A lot of people find money stuff overwhelming — but it’s never too late to start educating yourself.

By Julia Sullivan
Future Perfect
Do you need to know who you’d be without antidepressants?Do you need to know who you’d be without antidepressants?
Future Perfect

After years on psychiatric drugs, some ask if they owe it to themselves to try coming off the medication.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
The ugly emotion pregnant people aren’t supposed to talk aboutThe ugly emotion pregnant people aren’t supposed to talk about
Advice

I feel guilty about how much I hate being pregnant. Experts say I shouldn’t.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Future Perfect
4 ways people try to make their lives meaningful — and the one that works best for you4 ways people try to make their lives meaningful — and the one that works best for you
Future Perfect

A new theory about why human beings evolved the need to feel purpose.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
The fine line between healthy confidence and delusionThe fine line between healthy confidence and delusion
Advice

You just have to strike a balance between optimism and realism.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
So you owe the IRS a lot of money? Here’s what to do.So you owe the IRS a lot of money? Here’s what to do.
Advice

This doesn’t mean you did anything wrong — and there are plenty of ways to dig yourself out.

By Julia Sullivan
Advice
The best financial advice I ever receivedThe best financial advice I ever received
Advice

If you’re afraid to deal with your taxes, hiring an accountant will change your life.

By Julia Ries Wexler
Future Perfect
A guide to finding meaning at work in the age of AIA guide to finding meaning at work in the age of AI
Future Perfect

You don’t have to give up on a profession you love and become a plumber.

By Sigal Samuel
When do you actually need life insurance?
Advice

I’m 37 and pregnant with twins. Is it time?

By Julia Ries Wexler
Explain It to Me
How to get rid of all of your extra stuffHow to get rid of all of your extra stuff
Podcast
Explain It to Me

America’s clutter problem, explained.

By Jonquilyn Hill
The mysterious Redditor who’s changing the way we do laundry
Life

How a man who calls himself Kismai built a cult following around lipase and “spa day.”

By Alex Abad-Santos
Advice
How to figure out your finances after a breakupHow to figure out your finances after a breakup
Advice

It’s not just about budgeting, but how you want your money to make you feel in this new phase of life.

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
The honest conversation about antidepressants I wish my psychiatrist had with meThe honest conversation about antidepressants I wish my psychiatrist had with me
Future Perfect

How to think about long-term use, dependence, and withdrawal — according to a professional.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
How to feel okay about your body in the age of OzempicHow to feel okay about your body in the age of Ozempic
Advice

There are ways to actively resist the idea that your life would be better if you lost some weight.

By Kyndall Cunningham
Good Medicine
The false promise of a “no sugar” dietThe false promise of a “no sugar” diet
Good Medicine

Is sugar really that bad for you? Well, what kind of sugar are we talking about?

By Dylan Scott
Future Perfect
Why people are craving a different kind of therapy right nowWhy people are craving a different kind of therapy right now
Future Perfect

A psychiatrist explains why Internal Family Systems is having a moment, despite its lack of evidence.

By Sigal Samuel